Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Avoid Killer Parenting

Parenting is the source of food and sustenance of a child's emotional development. If you don't love your child-he/she will die!

What happens today between parent and child matters tomorrow and twenty years from now. Loving your child,setting your heart to the sacrificial,energy-consuming,life draining task of loving him/her. This is not just giving him hugs,forgiving her "babyness",being patient and so on,you are actually providing,through this actions,the life and food for the future years.These are ingredients that would form his emotional health.

The Parent is the most important:
As with many parents attitude is the major problem. Healthy children begin with healthy parents.Any approach to family that starts by focusing on the child is putting the cart before the horse. Also , families an only be as healthy as the parents are. The family system will be only as healthy as parents who leads it,even though individual members of family may be healthier than the parents.
Our focus should be on our health as parents rather than Child management.

Don't Kill That Child!!!